If your newborn has had some bottle or uses a pacifier a lot, he may seem confused, or even refuse to go to the breast. Sometimes babies have difficulty latching-on if your nipples are soft and flat.
Skin to skin holding
Try this several times each day for an hour or two. Not only is skin-to-skin contact great for promoting breastfeeding, it helps enhance your baby's nervous system and is fun to do.
Laid-back breastfeeding
If your baby needs more assistance, try laying back for the feeding. Babies seem to feed better when their tummy is in full contact with the mom.
All you have to do is lean back, find a comfortable position and lay the baby near the breast. When he is ready he will find the breast with little help from you Watch the video of this “Laid Back Breastfeeding” at http://www.biologicalnurturing.com/video/bn3cli p.html
Give him a taste
Express a few drops on milk on your nipple or drip some milk over your nipple for your baby to taste. Stroke your baby's lips with your nipple (from nose towards chin) until his mouth opens wide and pull him quickly onto the breast. Encourage your baby softly and calmly.
If your nipple is difficult to grasp, roll it gently between your fingers to make it stand out. Make your breast into a "nipple sandwich" by gently compressing behind the edge of the areola. Keep your thumb in line with your baby’s nose and your fingers on the opposite side.